Wednesday, August 11, 2004

And the Bridezillia award goes to...

One could say I'm not sentimental, therefore the whole Bridezillia thing didn't really strike me during the wedding process (more like, "when am I going to have a life again?!?!"). I've been married for barely four months and I'm already auctioning off my wedding dress and tiara. Hey, I've kept the husband; that's more than enough wedding souvenirs, right?

In addition, I sold all of my wedding planning books. In an attempt to sell them in a hurry, I priced them dirt cheap and posted them to a "For Sale" listserve . I replied back to the first person who voiced interest, who will now be known as Bridezillia, despite the fact she offered considerably less money than I posted. While time passed and my emails of "are you still interested?" to her went unanswered, I ended up selling the books to someone who conveniently worked elsewhere in my building, who immediately answered and had a check written to me in nano seconds. Then, out of the blue came an email from Bridezillia, with the subject of "Confused!" the first in a trilogy of bridal meltdown. It was immediately followed up by "Amazed!", for which I replied...

Date: Thu, 05 Aug 2004
From: "Not yet, but soon to be known as Bridezillia"
Subject: Re: Amazed!
To: Me

Dear "Not yet, but soon to be known as Bridezillia",

I am so sorry. You may be right about something being wrong with my email because I never saw the email you sent yesterday.

Unfortunately, the other buyer has already paid and picked up the books. I will immediately send you back your check once I receive it. I'm not sure if you have ever used Amazon.com, but the books are available there used, and at the prices I posted (where I got the prices from). Again, I am very sorry, and I should have tried calling you to confirm the sale instead of relying on email.

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In the spirit of epics like LOTR, I immediately received this third installment...

Date: Thu, 05 Aug 2004
From: Bridezillia
Subject: Shocked!
To: Me

Jinny,

It is just a little disturbing to me that I contacted you three times to close the deal on the books, then you e-mail me at 10:30 this morning that you are going to sell them to someone else and by the time that I replied back at 11:00 someone had already picked them up and paid for them. I always stand by my word when I say that I am going to do something so I am a little perplexed that after you got at least one of my e-mails confirming our deal that you would not at least have had a benefit of doubt before just selling them to someone else. I can't imagine that 3 books totally dominated your entire bookcase, but I guess the "good guy" doesn't always win, just like our beloved staff member who was tragically found dead yesterday afternoon. Unfortunately, due to such tragic consequences, I was not able to "immediately" e-mail you back for which I guess you faulted my integrity and broke our deal. Either way, books can be replaced, but honesty, trust and beloved staff members cannot.

Thanks .... I think!

Bridezillia


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I have decided to vote her off the island.

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